Princess Lessons ~ Sweet Slumber
Monday, April 28th, 2008
Just a simple lesson today, for those who may have trouble sleeping, find they do not get quality rest or simply wish to make their bedtime a little more princess like.
Sleep is one of the most valuable gifts you can give yourself, as much as healthy food and excercise it will contribute to your general health and beauty (the phrase ‘beauty sleep’ is no lie!) Ideally we should get at least eight hours sleep a night, with going to bed early and rising early being preferencial. I try to be in bed by 10:30 most nights, and rise between 6-7am, often as the sun does. I’ve always been a morning person and am most alert from the moment I get up to around midday. However, even if you’re used to sleeping in and staying up late, you can retrain your body and may find you have a lot more energy when you do!
Read a book before bed. This is my favourite way to wind down and relax my mind, escaping from daily stress and perparing for beautiful dreams. I especially love reading fairy tales and fantasy at this time. If you can find someone to read to you, then you are extra lucky!
Wash your pillowcase regularly and scent it with rose or lavender water, the latter will help you sleep even more. Try making your bed each morning, getting in to a freshly made bed at night is much more comforting than crawling under a heaped pile of covers.
If light bothers you, aquire a sleeping mask. There are many beautiful ones out there, embroidered or quilted or even bejewled! It adds a little bit of luxury and is useful when travelling too.
Wear beautiful nightwear, I love nightgowns best, with lace and chiffon or cute ruffles! There are lots of adorable pajamas out there too. You may like to look at BABY’s nightwear section for ideas.
There’s nothing worse than getting in to a cold bed in winter! Historically ladies have had their beds pre-heated by warming pans, however a much easier option for us is a hot water bottle. Pop it in to bed at least ten minutes beforehand and it will be nice and cosy when you get there. I also love wheat packs, the sort you heat in the microwave, scented with lavender and rose petals they are very soothing.
Make yourself a ‘posset’ before bed. A Posset is a hot milk drink consumed before bed, traditonally it had alcohol added to curdle the milk but I make mine without using the recipe below. If you don’t drink milk, there are lot of great herbal teas that contain herbs which will help you sleep. A favourite of mine is Celestial Seasonings ‘Sleepytime’ which tastes of mint and chamomile, yum!
1 Cup of milk
1 tsp honey
Pinch of ground cinnamon
Pinch of nutmeg
A few drops of natural almond or vanilla extract
Heat the milk in a saucepan, add the honey, cinnamon, nutmeg and almond or vanilla extract. Take off the heat just before it scalds. Pour in to your favourite cup and sprinkle with a little extra cinnamon.

Our first duty, which comes before all others, is to ourselves. This doesn’t mean being selfish and doing what you want all the time, it means having a deep understanding and respect for who you are as a person and strong idea of what is right for you. It means staying true to yourself in all situations, listening to your conscience and your heart and making choices that meet the demands of both.
I think its sad that these days we mostly think of poetry as something you read, rather than listen too. I find I enjoy it so much more as an art when it is recited aloud, indeed whenever I read books such as Anne of Green Gables in which poetry recitations are featured I always wish that I could attend. Of course there are still some groups that do this, but it is not as popular as it once was.
Choose a poem you really love. Something that has meaning for you and flows beautifully in your mind. Don’t choose a poem with too many verses, unless you’re fairly confident of your ability to memorise them all. You may already have your own favourite poets, I’m particularly fond of Tennyson, Keats and Wordsworth.

Start your day off in the most beautiful way possible (without sleeping it away!) leave your curtains open so that you might be awakened by the first rays of morning light as they fall upon your face. Have breakfast in bed, some fresh fruit perhaps and your favourite tea. Listen to the sounds of the birds outside, read a few pages of a favourite book, or a poem like 
I’m a firm believer in natural remedies for fighting off colds and flu, the reason being that these illnesses are rarely serious unless you’ve got a particularly weak disposition, so its actually good to keep your immune system in fighting shape by dealing with these so you’ll be better protected when it comes to more serious viruses. 
As Princesses, I’m sure we all have dreams and wishes that we’d like to see realised in the future. Whether its having a beautiful palace and gardens, travelling all over the world, learning a new skill or something as simple as aquiring a beautiful dress. I firmly believe that there is nothing we can not achieve if we truly set our hearts on it, however that doesn’t mean we should expect a fairy godmother to come along and grant all these wishes with the wave of her wand. More often we have to use our wits, talents and imagination to bring our dream world in to reality. This method takes more work, but its also far more rewarding!
To begin with, try Visualising your goals. Create a clear mental image of what you want to achieve. If your goal is to visit England, picture yourself walking through the streets of London. If your goal is to master a musical intrument, picture yourself on stage playing for a large audience of happy people. Having an strong image of your dream will keep you going, whenever you lose focus just bring that image to mind. You could also create a scrapbook or collage as a physical reminder!
Inspired by Enchanted I decided to put together a little list for ‘How to be a Disney Princess.’ This is mostly in jest, for a bit of fun, but for girls who grew up with the Disney Heroines as a major inspiration for the Inner Princesses, this may bring back a touch of nostalgia!
Dress up! Shopping is much more fun if you feel fresh and pretty to begin with, and you’ll be so much more at ease walking in to nice boutiques. Looking your best makes you feel more confident aswell. Do wear clothes that are easy to change out of if you’re clothes shopping though and don’t forget comfortable shoes!
In my last article on skin care I mentioned that every Princess has different skin and that not all remedies and products work for everyone. To decide on a routine that works best for you, it can be helpful to find out which skin type you have. There are four main skin types, and a commonly listed fifth is ‘normal’ skin, which is well balanced skin with no particular problems. There might be a lucky few with this skin type, but most of us will find we lean towards one of these.
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